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Clear Signs People Around You Are Dangerous | Be Very Careful!
In discovering your true identity you'll realise not everyone can be your friend. You are too precious for that. Friendship or any relationship is a beautiful thing, you get to have and keep beautiful memories, a shoulder to cry on, a hand to pull you through, a place where you truly belong, are loved or share a sense of commonality. All these make life interesting but it's imperative that we realise that there isn't any relationship that doesn't influence. One of those people that you need to stay clear of is a toxic person. A toxic person is harmful to you and your health. One of the most dangerous relationships you can be is with a toxic person. They slowly drag you down without you even knowing.
How do do you identify a toxic people?
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•They take advantage of you: The moment you begin to feel you're at the mercy of someone and they can do and undo, it's a sign that you might need to cut off those relationships. Imagine a male friend who teaches his female friend in the university and by reason of the help being rendered, he tries to have sexual affairs with her. You need to cut off that relationship. Friends see one another's weaknesses but where a friend begins to use the weaknesses of the other friend as to take undue advantage, such shouldn't be called a friend. A true friend sees your nakedness and covers it, not tries to take your naked picture. A toxic person influences you unduly to do what they want you to do because they have something against you.
• They drain you: These types of people suck you dry of your spiritual energy and draw you away from God. Never forget that it takes an iron to sharpen another iron. Wood cannot sharpen iron, it would end in frustration. You know that feeling you get when someone can totally relate with you and come to your level, when they can totally understand you without having to force it? It's an awe-mazing feeling. Now you have an idea how it feels when you're with someone who drains you of your energy either by getting into meaningless fights with you over why you're fasting or why you're fasting for long periods etc. A relationship is meant to help and strengthen the other person, where one is tired, the other lifts up, but in your case, the contrary is the issue. You need to cut ties with them.
• They are Jealous of you! Flee! Jealousy is a terrible spirit that gives birth to other siblings like envy, anger and hate. The minute you notice your relationship either romantic or friendship cannot accommodate your success, cannot be happy for you when you succeed, they don't understand why the success cannot come to them instead, it's a sign that you really need to cut ties with them. I was listening to an intelligent business woman and she stated that one of the most dangerous thing in a romantic relationship or a marriage is to have a spouse who is jealous of your achievement, someone who feels threatened by your success and suffers low esteem simply because you're successful. You need to cut them off. You deserve better.
• They are a threat to your life or spiritual walk: Where your friend begins to engage in something totally against God's word and after series of warnings, they choose not to yield, its a call to separate from them. It's totally fine to be empathic and want to pray or see them change but you might need to do that from a distance. For instance, your close friend all of a sudden begins to sleep around and move out with guys till late in the night, begins to drink and smoke and even bring those guys into your room. Sooner or later, if you're not subtly influenced, you might be implicated.
• They always point out your weaknesses and are judgemental: There are certain persons who do not see the good or the uniqueness that lies in you. They usually tell you how inferior you are, they speak only about your weaknesses and always seem to know how you are meant to do things. Judging your every action, even though they many times make it seem as though they are concerned and want to make you a better person but beneath that cloak lies the truth.
•They threaten your peace: Let me pause to say this, the minute you do not have peace regarding a person, even if he is the richest, most handsome or seems to be the most spiritual, its a red sign that says let him go. Or you’re in a relationship where your self-esteem is constantly being trampled upon, you’re abused either physically, emotionally, psychologically or financially and you choose to remain there, dearest, let it go. You're too important and precious to be treated with scorn. Any relationship where you cannot be yourself without feeling suffocated is not worth it, cut it off.
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