Context: My sister (F27) and I (18F) lost our dad a year ago. He was my only parent, mom was never in mine or my sister's life. Dad left money (inheritance) for me and sister and she used her inheritance to get new cars and renovate her house I live with my aunt right now cause my brother in-law didn't let me stay with my sister. I'm planning on using my inheritance money to pay for college tuition (I've always wanted to be doctor but haven't decided which branch yet).
My sister & I haven't been close, it started after she got married to her chronically ill husband who was allowed to make backhanded comments about dad and mock his illness and make a scene at his funeral. only because he's ill and shouldn't be held accountable for his behavior. I've distanced myself But my sister kept visiting a lot lately venting about my brother in-laws condition. He's been in & out the hospital for heart problems and in need for a surgery. She brought up my inheritance money several times but I end up cutting the conversation.
She then straight up asked if I could help pay for her husband's surgery and she'd pay back in less than a year. I felt uneasy cause if I give her money from my inheritance which is a large amount then there's no guarantee she'll pay back before It's time to apply for college. I'm taking a year gap but I know my sister can't pay back that much and I felt I was risking my future.
Story 1:
AITA for refusing to pay for my sister's husband's surgery with my inheritance/college money?
Story 2:
AITA for not sharing my car with my stepbrother?
Story 3:
AITA for not wanting to help financially support my SIL's family while she tries to make their circumstances better?
Story 4:
AITA for refusing to do my stepdaughter’s dishes and laundry?
#AITA #Parenting #Family
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